Monday, February 8, 2010

:::Le PASSION:::

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Le day of amore is right around the corner... Once again, I have let LIFE get in my way...  Usually that happens when I am IN a job. Right now, I have NO job, but looking for a job is my NEW job... so once again, I am on the edge of allowing or not allowing LIFE to pass me by... Did I catch it in the nick of time?? Well, it is NOT V-day yet, but once again, I have failed to put TIME into looking for a boyfriend, so it is pretty much the same as almost missing it... 

I know some women settle for men just because they are good for them... someone who can be a good friend, someone who can be faithful, someone who cares for them...  I have been in relationships with men who were not good for me... but it is hard for me to imagine being with someone if there is no PASSION in the relationship... Am I more willing to be in a relationship with a man who is not good for me than to be in a relationship where there is no PASSION?... Good question...

Right now, I am in a relationship with a man who is good for me, but the relationship has not gone anywhere in years... He is a good friend, but I cannot say that we are a couple, because I have never been attracted to him that way... He has a lot of good qualities... more than are on my list of "must have" qualities, but what cuts me off the most is his mouth. He seems too comfortable in our relationship that he always says things that he shouldn't... total turn-off! Is it possible to create PASSION where there is no CHEMISTRY?!... Yawn...

I have been without a boyfriend since my divorce in 1997... and I waited 13 years to find that one! OMG @ this year will hit another 13 years mark... I better keep my eyes open...

XX

7 comments:

Kath said...

They say unlucky for some 13 Winivere,maybe it will be lucky for YOU.He'll be one lucky guy when it does happen Heeeeeee.Go gentle on him LOL!!Have a good day.Take Care God Bless Kath xx

Senorita said...

They say that if you settle for what you don't want, you miss out on getting what you really want.

No way am I going out with a man I feel no passion towards, just because he's a good guy, or just because he's nice.

I would rather be single.

I hope you find the right combination in 2010.

Missie said...

When you least expect it, that special guy will appear!

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Jimmy's Journal said...

There is no justifiable relationship without passion. All others are merely acquaintances.

I never "look" for anything. I go out, be myself and enjoy the moment.

You have good qualities. Learn to love yourself first and the rest will fall into place.

Jimmy

donnasteffy said...

Thank you for sharing your laments about not having passion in your life. I say seek it out and you shall find it. However, sometimes passion also brings danger. Having a good man in your life should not be underestimated.They are really worth their weight in gold. They offer so much support when life gets tough that if you were no longer able to rely on it you may very well miss it.

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